At SamSara, I found a person like me, “normal”, without fanfare or wanting to be in the spotlight. I recommend SamSara because they are serious and have a respect for people that I don’t think is shared by other agencies:
The fact that there isn’t a list of people online, or that they don’t put pictures in your file, is a good example. I feel lucky, because I’ve gotten good things both times I registered: the first time, a fling that didn’t work out; and the second time, my partner today. It’s possible that not everyone will have the same luck as me, but if you are positive, I’m sure you will benefit.